Proverbs - Part 10

Wisdom on a Leash:

The war for Self-Control

Meeting Purpose

To discuss self-control, its dangers, and the solution from Proverbs.

Key Takeaways

-             The Problem: Uncontrolled passions are a "war for self-control," making one a "fool" (Proverbs 14:29) and causing self-destruction (Proverbs 18:6).

-             The Solution: Pursue wisdom, which is "supreme" (Proverbs 4:7) and provides protection.

-             The Foundation: Wisdom begins with "the fear of the Lord" (Proverbs 9:10)—a reverent awe that motivates obedience and sets boundaries.

-             The Allies: Two key allies in this war are a supportive community and the Holy Spirit.

Topics

The Problem: Lack of Self-Control

o  The discussion framed self-control as a "war" where a lack of discipline makes one a "fool" (Proverbs 14:29).

o  Uncontrolled passions lead to self-destruction (Proverbs 18:6).

o  The core conflict is the desire for good vs. the inability to achieve it, a struggle mirrored in Romans 7.

The Solution: Pursuing Wisdom

o  Proverbs 4:7 commands, "Wisdom is supreme; therefore get wisdom."

o  Wisdom provides protection and honor, acting as a guide and guardian.

The Foundation: Fear of the Lord

o  Proverbs 9:10 states, "The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom."

o  This "fear" is not terror but a reverent awe that motivates obedience and sets boundaries.

The Allies: Community & Holy Spirit

o  Two allies were identified as essential for success:

§ A supportive community.

§ The Holy Spirit.

Next Steps

o  Participants: Apply the "fear of the Lord" to daily life, using it to set boundaries and motivate obedience.

o  Participants: Leverage community and the Holy Spirit as allies in the "war for self-control."